Author: Obayomi Abiola Benjamin

I am Abiola OBAYOMI Benjamin, a Writer by Grace, an Author: (Developing Yourself Spiritually), a Blogger (Fridayposts.Com), Director, School of Marriage at Centre for New Dimension Leadership, Abuja and a passionate Nigerian. I believe Nigeria will be great again, but the change we need in Nigeria begins with all of us doing things differently. Collectively, we can make Nigeria work.

Leadership, as we have come to know and understand it, is a sacred responsibility that extends beyond personal ambition or organizational success. It is a divine calling to serve, inspire, and advance God’s purposes on Earth. For example, in Exodus 18:21-23, the Bible says: “Moreover you shall select from all the people able men, such as fear God, men of truth, hating covetousness; and place such over them to be rulers of thousands, rulers of hundreds, rulers of fifties, and rulers of tens. 22 And let them judge the people at all times. Then it will be that every great…

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Leadership is often tested and refined in moments and times of adversity. It is in moments of difficulty that true leadership emerges, shaped by the resilience, wisdom, and character of those who rise to the occasion. Throughout history, both biblical and secular, great leaders have been those who endured hardship, adapted to challenges, and inspired others through their perseverance. The Bible provides a wealth of examples demonstrating how adversity refines leaders and develops the essential traits of effective leadership. One of such profound examples is Joseph, who faced betrayal by his brothers, slavery in Egypt, and wrongful imprisonment (Genesis 37–41).…

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“You therefore, my son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus. 2 And the things that you have heard from me among many witnesses, commit these to faithful men who will be able to teach others also. 3 You therefore must endure hardship as a good soldier of Jesus Christ. 4 No one engaged in warfare entangles himself with the affairs of this life, that he may please him who enlisted him as a soldier. 5 And also if anyone competes in athletics, he is not crowned unless he competes according to the rules.” (2Timothy 2:1-5, NKJV) In 2 Timothy 2:1-5, Paul offers a profound message to Timothy, urging him to embrace a…

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Relational leadership is a leadership idea that places relationships at the core of leadership practice. It emphasizes collaboration, trust, empathy, and servant-hearted leadership. Unlike autocratic or transactional leadership styles, relational leadership fosters a culture of shared vision, empowerment, and personal development. In the Bible, leadership is often portrayed as a relational process rather than a mere position of power. Jesus Christ, the ultimate model of leadership, demonstrated relational leadership by building deep relationships with His disciples, empowering them, serving them, and leading with love, humility, and purpose. His leadership was transformational, shaping not just behavior but the hearts of those…

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Self-leadership is the ability to guide and regulate oneself toward personal and spiritual growth, making choices that align with purpose, values, and divine principles. At the heart of effective self-leadership is discernment, the ability to distinguish truth from falsehood, wisdom from folly, and divine direction from human impulses. Proverbs 4:7 states, “Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.” This verse highlights the necessity of wisdom and discernment in navigating life and leadership effectively. Self-leadership without discernment will ultimately lead to self-destruction. Discernment, as the fulcrum of self-leadership, ensures that one’s decisions and…

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Leadership is often defined by choices made in moments of crisis. I think it was Dr. Munroe (of blessed memory) who said you don’t know how much of a leader you are until you are faced with a crisis. This saying simply connotes that a person’s true leadership qualities and capabilities only become apparent when they are confronted with a difficult or challenging situation, like a crisis, where their decision-making, composure, and ability to rally others are truly tested. But in calmer times, leadership potential might not be as evident. While stable periods may allow for careful deliberation, true leadership is tested…

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“Then they rose early on the next day, offered burnt offerings, and brought peace offerings; and the people sat down to eat and drink, and rose up to play.” (Exodus 32:6)  In looking at vision and leadership in Christian parlance and its ensuing practices, vision and leadership are often considered essential components of effective ministry, administration, and also providing an effective life’s direction. While people have asked; which is more important, vision or leadership? This question of whether vision is more important than leadership has given rise to a deep scriptural reflection. There is no doubt about the fact that…

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This week, I reflected on why leadership is the foundation upon which success and failure hinge, and more so, why spiritual leadership should be taken seriously. This curiosity led me to explore biblical leadership: its structure, driving forces, and the factors that determined the success or failure of its key figures. As I studied, I documented my insights, which have now culminated in this piece you are about to read. Leadership in every sense of the word involves influencing and guiding individuals toward a common goal. While secular leadership often focuses on skills, strategies, and performance, spiritual leadership is grounded…

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Christian ministry leadership, as ordained by Scripture, is fundamentally built on the principle of servant leadership. Any deviation from this principle leads to autocracy, a system in which one individual holds absolute power, often resulting in oppression, control, and spiritual harm. The Biblical model of leadership exemplified by Jesus Christ stands in stark contrast to autocracy, emphasizing humility, service, and love. The notion of servant leadership is deeply rooted in the teachings and example of Jesus Christ. In Matthew 20:25-28 (NKJV), Jesus explicitly contrasts worldly leadership with godly leadership. The Bible says: “But Jesus called them to Himself and said,…

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Hello leaders. Welcome once again to the third leg of this series: The God Factor in your leadership. So far, we have examined the place of seeking divine wisdom and guidance in your leadership, and also, leading with purpose. You can have access to these articles as you click on their respective links. In this third part of the series, we want to see why leaders must lead with a servant heart.  Understanding this as a leader is germane as it is an integral part of the God factor in your leadership. Now, let us go into it proper! The…

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