Understanding the different classifications of family values and the fact that so many subcategories can fall under these categories can be less confusing when attempting to figure out precisely what the primary family values are.
Some of the most common that people (and children) associate with traditional family values include:
1. Mutual respect
One of the most important values that children need to be taught is to respect elders. That’s not only true of their parents but, most importantly, the aged community. The idea is to lead by example. Generally, they will follow the same guidelines when you give them respect.
2. Instilling honesty
One of the core values for kids to have positive interactions in the home and be successful in all areas of their lives is, to be honest.
You can show them this by letting them know when you’ve made a mistake. Also, when you allow kids to tell the truth without severe repercussions for doing so, along the lines of “if you tell the truth, it’ll go easier on you,” they’ll involve you in their life more.
3. Flexible
Adjust to life as it comes with a sense of adaptability, even when unexpected happenings occur, throwing you for a loop. Then you can develop strategies later in life for dealing with change.
4. Being fair
Seeing this concept in the home environment and then implementing it outside of that environment is critical, like perhaps sharing with the computer or taking turns helping with dinner so everyone is included and then shows inclusiveness in school or extracurricular activities.
5. Responsible
A child will feel as though they are essential when they can contribute, allowing for positivity in the family relations and developing good behavior. It equates to accomplishments and ultimate success.
6. Integrity
When someone says they’ll do something, they need to follow through with that action. That develops dependability and reliability as time passes and will produce self-confidence. As a parent, showcase the behavior by keeping promises.
7. Compassion for oneself
It’s okay to be kind to yourself. When you make a mistake, don’t be hard on yourself. Also, if you have intense stress, take care of yourself to release that so the kids see they can do the same thing, nurture, and engage in self-care.
8. Kindness to others
Kindness and generosity to others are vital, as are compassion and empathy, to develop positive partnerships and relationships with family, friends, and mates.
When a parent is kind to a child and it feels good, they will mimic that behavior to others and generate the same incredible feelings since they made someone else happy.
9. Faith
Having faith in a religion is a critical component in many family homes that helps to instill traditional values in children. If you hold this family value as an important tradition, it’s important to encourage your child to follow and perhaps pass it onto the next generation.
10. Loyalty
Loyalty to family and friends is a strong belief many parents instill in their children. It’s essential to respect the people who are closest to you and protect those relationships. Join family workshops meant to help families enhance their values and skills working together as families.
